Saturday, November 14, 2009

Confusing girl? shes a really good friend and its longdistance. whats the deal?

so i def like this girl and were really good friends anyway. but we went to the same college last sem. but she didnt get to come bakc this year. we talk some and txt and all that and i cant tell if she likes me.i sent her a flower on valentines and she called me taht night and we talked for a while and seh even sent me a pic of her that said i just wanted to say i miss you. and sometimes shell call me when she knows im on my way to eat or something, i guess she knows my schedule good enough to call when she knows im not really busy. anywya things like that that happen make me think she likes me right. but she also confuses me cuz ill txt her or call or IM and she may or may not reply...even txt she doesnt reply sometimes. wel i got to see her this week for the first time in 3 months and we hung out some and she was the one to hug me. and she wants to hang out this weekend when i see her agian. its so confusing when she talks to me sometimes and then she ignores me. whats the deal here?

Confusing girl? shes a really good friend and its longdistance. whats the deal?
I'm in a long-distance relationship myself. The distance is the hardest thing to overcome. It's really hard because you're not involved in the same things. You're not in the same classes or able to do anything with each other so that makes it difficult sometimes to have something to talk about. As you know by now it's really hard to figure out what the other is thinking when you're so far away. She may be confused. Just be totally honest. Try to not hold things back. Communication is the key to any relationship but even more so now. And just remember that she may have things going on that keeps her from responding right away. But just be patient and talk to her.


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