Help what do i do?

theres this girl and shes cute and kind and also weird sometimes but i like that too hehe. she doesnt know how amazing she is cuz other ppl were mean to her b4 but i know its cuz theyre jealous of the most beautiful flower of all the field! growing wild and beautiful! =D and she likes me too and we mustve shared a million secrets and promises with each other. i dunno what to say when shes sad and i want her to be happy and when im lonely i think about her. but i know shes going to break my heart=[. i dont think she really likes me like i like her even tho she says she does but then she always tells me about this stuff and even yesterday she told me shell go out to a movie with this boy this weekend = [. she knows i like her so it must mean either shes either doing it on purpose or she just doesnt care =/. shes so amazing to me and i want her to be happy but i dont want to be sad either!! so what do i do =[? should i stop talking to her and move on before its too late?

Help what do i do?
i have the same probelm with the girl im "seeing/dating"








and im not open at all... so jsut askign advice from my closest friends is hard too, but i did so.. and they say that for it to work you gotta have the same effort on both sides.





Like my situation.. i would go great lenths for this girl and i have, but she tells me she likes me but does nothing to show it. while here im telling her how great she is and so on, but i never get the same attention back. I dont know wether im not trying hard enough or not, or if she doesnt like me and she is just elling she does to not hurt my feelings.... and all this waiting is killing me really...





i have the theory that she isnt ready for a relationship, and that she might just be looking for something short term with no label (not neccasarly benefits and stuff), part of my theory is that until she figures out what she wants shes expecting me to wait... which im willing to do, but some of my friends tell me that i shouldnt, that it isnt right of her to just hope that ill be here no matter what...





i see where my friends are coming from.. but yet, i dont know what to do, im generaly a nice guy, so i dont know how to tell her that i need a truthfull answer on how she feels
Reply:Well, whatever you do, don't give up on her. If you really like her that much then she is not worth loosing.
Reply:make it really clear how you feel about her. tell her what you wrote her. you have nothing to lose :D
Reply:even though you probably don't want me of all people answering this question, it was to hard to resist.





no no no!


did you NOT get my offline messages?


i told catherine i WOULDN'T go! and she likes him and now they are like going out NOT "me" and him but catherine and him!


babe no, i sent you an entire novel on how i feel about you that took me like an hour to write after we talked. either you didn't get it or you don't care. i have thought of like 3 different ways i can actually see you. of course not this summer but next summer :\ even though thats an entire year away, of course if your still up for it haha.


im sorry.





btw. theres no way possible for me to "break your heart". unless i went bi, changed my name to melon, and started dating emma (which would never happen, ever) there is no one. seriously, c'mon what do you think? im going to find some amazingly awesome guy that even compares to you ... at the grocery store? lol.





i answered this question before you posted this.


http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?...





but if you feel that way just promise me if you do decide to stop talking to me you will at least warn me somehow and don't just stop all contact. dont ignore me either you are driving me crazy.