Is my girlfriend cheating on me?

i dated ashlle for about 9 mo. while she had a bf. one day she says that she cant see two people anymore so its over. a couple months later she comes to me begging. saying that she loves me. We start going out as she was my gf. one night i had to go to church which was at 7 to 8. which i let her know.she said that jane was going to dye her hair. at 9 she says shell be right over. at 1030 she shows up. im pissed . Another time she says out of nowhere that she is going shopping w her mom. i tried calling but she said her phone died and she had to wait for her mom because she was drunk. came back later looking guilty and quiet. then the other day she said her friend jane was being sexually harrassed at work and that jane wanted her to be there. she comes back like 5 hours later with no calls or nothing. then she goes to school a couple of days later she says and i go up to school to drop off flowers and her car wasnt there. i get pissed and go off a couple days later she says needs time

Is my girlfriend cheating on me?
Ahem, did you not date her while she already had a boyfriend. This woman doesn't want you. Find a woman who isn't a two timer and a user.
Reply:Doesn't sound to me like she is....but then again I don't know her...
Reply:probably...let her know you aint playing games
Reply:Later 4 her.
Reply:no
Reply:Yeah with me right now buddy!
Reply:i think you need to move on.... toooo much baggage.....
Reply:IF YUO HAVE TO ASK THE QUESTION YOU ALREADY KNOW THE ANSWER
Reply:Yeah just drop her. how old are u? Dont get into anything serious till your about 25 yrs old. play the field you dont have time for games like that.
Reply:ashlle just told me to tell you that she is cheating...and, could you please stop talking about her on the internet
Reply:talk talk and talk to each other. Why so suspicious, give her a break. Put yourself in her shoes, do you want to give an explanation on everything you do in your life ??


Come on have a life.
Reply:First of all you dated her while she was seeing someone else too. All these scenario's may be the truth or she may be seeing someone else on the side. She's done it before. Talk to her, let her know that you are not okay with sharing her. Tell her that it is you and only you or nothing.
Reply:Of course she is the best advise I can give you is.. to give her time.. But not only give her time.. But give yourself time.. Don’t talk to her don’t go out with her… Be without her and ignore her.. Then , trust me she’ll realize that she can’t play with you and she must make a decision.
Reply:Get rid of her. She is playing games. Once a gamer always a gamer. Find someone who doesn't lie and is true to you. They are out there.
Reply:hmmmm...YES SHE IS CHEATING ON U..SHE IS NOTHING MORE THEN A CONFUSSED DARAMA QUEEN IN UR LIFE.U SEEMS LIKE A VERY LOVING AND CARING GUY U DONT NEED TO BE WITH A GIRL LIKE HER SHE IS JUST KEEPING U ON THE SIDE FOR HER MENTAL SATISFACTION BUT SHE IS IN LOVE WITH THE GUY SHE IS CHEATING ON U WITH.EVERY TIME HE BLEW HER OFF OR GIVES HER A HARD TIME SHE COME BACK RUNNING TO U BECAUSE SHE KNOWS SHE GOT U ON LEASH.LET HER GO WITH OTHER GUY AND I AM SURE SHE WILL REALIZE AFTER SOMETIME SHE MADE A BIG MISTAKE ITS NOT EASY TO FIND PPL NOW DAYS WHO CARE ABT U AND LOVES U SO I THINK SHE WAS LUCKY TO HAVE U.ANYWAYS TAKE CARE N GOOD LUCK.
Reply:Does it matter if shes cheating? The way she is treating you should be enough reason for you to be outty no matter what the hell shes doing. Best Luck!
Reply:sorry i didnt read ur complete question but as much as i read suggests that shes not into u and just taking u as a time pass... ur a good guy... stop torturing urself because of her... she isnt worth it.... there are lots of great girls wating for u out there.. :)
Reply:yes
Reply:she is messing around . don't play her games .
Reply:It's over, move on.
Reply:Well, one clue is that she had a boyfriend when you met her. What goes around comes around. Most people who cheat once more inclined to do it again. There are some exceptions but very few. Another clue is that she has an excuse for everything and some are not very good excuses either. There is also the change in her behavior. Any of these things alone would not necessarily mean that she is cheating. However, all of them together suggests that she probably is or at least that she is trying to move on from you.





I do feel a bit sorry for you, but I can't totally because how do you think the person she was dating when you met her felt? I'm not trying to be cruel, but if you want people to respect your relationships, then, you need to show the same respect for theirs. Girls who are already with guys and would mess with you when they are, probably aren't the best choices for girlfriends. Take it as a learning experience.
Reply:Work on your self-steem not b4 letting her go U dont need the crap in your life, trust me take it from someone who knew that she had a man first then try to make her mine. NOW IM paying for it.SHE has to change drastictly to trust a woman like that
Reply:Trust your gut 9 times out of 10 it's right!
Reply:She has cheated before and whether or not she is doing it now doesn't matter. You both seem like you are playing games. Now you know how that other guy she was dating the first nine months feels! Find another girl and stay honest you will be much happier if you find someone that will trust you and visa versa!
Reply:yep
Reply:if she making up all this excuses that because something is wrong with her. she probably would be would knows. BUT remenber OPEN UR EYES and see everything she does.
Reply:have her take a lie detector test. they have those services in the phone book
Reply:find someone else
Reply:Well the best thing to know is this: The fact you were the other man in her previous relationship has got your mind twisted. So now your looking for something bad to exist, she done the right thing and wants to back off. So let it be and move on. Try next time not to fall for someone that already have a man. If you don't start it right, it will never end up right.
Reply:either she is just a lier and is off just being iwht her firnds and not wanting to hang out with you or..yes im sorry to say but she is cheating..i think you need to give her her space and then if she comes back to you..i dunno if she was already cheating on someone when u guys met..what makes you think she wont be going off doing it to you..that would be my concern right there!!
Reply:YOU HAVE ALL THE SIGNALS, GO WITH YOUR GUT FEELING